“There was a time when I thought I loved my first wife more than life itself. But now I hate her guts. I do. How do you explain that? What happened to that love? What happened to it, is what I'd like to know. I wish someone could tell me.”

— Raymond Carver, book What We Talk About When We Talk About Love

Source: What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981)

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