“I'll pour you the first one and after that, if you don't have one, it's your own f****** fault. You know where it is.”

— Kingsley Amis

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English novelist, poet, critic, teacher 1922–1995

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“If you apologize for something that isn't your fault in the first place, you, in effect, confirm their belief that it is your fault.”

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“Are you really gay?
Yes.
Do you think you were born gay or became gay?
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I suppose.
To one degree or another, I'm sure it's your fault. Feel better now?”

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“If you try and lose then it isn't your fault. But if you don't try and we lose, then it's all your fault.”

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“You're a weirdo if you complain. It's your own fault if you're traumatized by a massacre. It's your own fault if you're poor. It's your own fault if you get downsized, overworked, bullied, and fail. Get over it.”

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