“If there is any substitute for love, it is memory.”

“You can’t substitute material things for love or for gentleness or for tenderness or for a sense of comradeship. Money is not a substitute for tenderness, and power is not a substitute for tenderness.”

“I loved the man and do honor his memory, on this side idolatry, as much as any.”

“If they will not love me, fear is an acceptable substitute.”

“This complaining rambling rubbish is the substitute which has taken the place of love.”

“If they substituted the word 'Lust' for 'Love' in the popular songs it would come nearer the truth.”

“You can't substitute material things for love or for gentleness or for tenderness or for a sense of comradeship”

“Chaos and intensity are no substitute for lasting love, nor are they necessarily an improvement on real life.”

“There is not any memory with less satisfaction than the memory of some temptation we resisted.”

“I cannot desire any created love, that is, love which can be felt, enjoyed, or understood. I do not wish love that can pass through the intellect, memory, or will; because pure love passes all these things and transcends them”