“That was how dishonesty and betrayal started, not in big lies but in small secrets.”
Amy Tan book The Bonesetter's Daughter
Source: The Bonesetter's Daughter

The Bonesetter's Daughter, published in 2003, is Amy Tan's fourth novel. Like much of Tan's work, this book deals with the relationship between an American-born Chinese woman and her immigrant mother.
“That was how dishonesty and betrayal started, not in big lies but in small secrets.”
Amy Tan book The Bonesetter's Daughter
Source: The Bonesetter's Daughter
“What is the past but what we choose to remember?”
Amy Tan book The Bonesetter's Daughter
Variant: After all, Bao Bomu says, what is the past but what we choose to remember?
Source: The Bonesetter's Daughter
“You can have pride in what you do each day, but not arrogance in what you were born with.”
Amy Tan book The Bonesetter's Daughter
Source: The Bonesetter's Daughter
“Chaos is the penance for leisure.”
Amy Tan book The Bonesetter's Daughter
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“Writing what you wished was the most dangerous form of wishful thinking.”
Amy Tan book The Bonesetter's Daughter
Source: The Bonesetter's Daughter
“A mother is always the beginning. She is how things begin.”
Amy Tan book The Bonesetter's Daughter
Source: The Bonesetter's Daughter