“There is a resemblance between men and women, not a contrast. When a man begins to recognize his feeling, the two unite. When men accept the sensitive side of themselves, they come alive.”

— Anaïs Nin

Source: In Favor of the Sensitive Man and Other Essays

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writer of novels, short stories, and erotica 1903–1977

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