“Giving anyone anything takes courage, since so many presents backfire. A gift conspicuously at odds with your tastes serves only to betray that the benefactor has no earthly clue who you are.”

—  Lionel Shriver , book The Post-Birthday World

Source: The Post-Birthday World

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