“Nature forms us for ourselves, not for others; to be, not to seem.”

—  Anaïs Nin

Essais (1595), Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, 10th ed. (1919)
Source: The Journals Of Anais Nin

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writer of novels, short stories, and erotica 1903–1977

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