“It is part of the human nature always to judge others very severely and, when the wind turns against us, always to find an excuse for our own misdeeds, or to blame someone else for our mistakes.”

— Paulo Coelho , book Like the Flowing River

Source: Like the Flowing River

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Brazilian lyricist and novelist 1947

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