
“You don't know a woman until you've met her in court.”
Source: Secrets of a Summer Night
“You don't know a woman until you've met her in court.”
A Grief Observed (1961)
Context: You never know how much you really believe anything until its truth or falsehood becomes a matter of life and death to you. It is easy to you believe a rope to be strong and sound as long as you are merely using it to cord a box. But suppose that you had to hang by that rope over a precipice. Wouldn't you then first discover how much you really trusted it? … Only a real risk tests the reality of a belief.
Canto 5, "Byckerment"
Phantasmagoria (1869)
“A woman is like a tea bag; you never know how strong she is until she gets into hot water. ”
Cardinal Francis Spellman in Book 1. London: Mandarin, 1993, p. 67
The Lovers (1993)
Source: I'd Tell You I Love You, But Then I'd Have to Kill You
“You never find yourself until you face the truth.”
Quoted in Criminal Minds Season 8, November 2012