“You have to die a few times before you can really
live.”

—  Charles Bukowski, book The People Look Like Flowers at Last

The quote "You have to die a few times before you can really live." is famous quote by Charles Bukowski (1920–1994), American writer.

Variant: You have to die a few times before you actually live.
Source: The People Look Like Flowers at Last

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American writer 1920–1994

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