“we unwittingly project onto God our own attitudes and feelings toward ourselves… But we cannot assume that He feels about us the way we feel about ourselves -- unless we love ourselves compassionately, intensely, and freely.”

—  Brennan Manning

Source: Abba's Child: The Cry of the Heart for Intimate Belonging

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