“I know why we laugh. We laugh because it hurts, and it's the only thing to make it stop hurting.”

— Robert A. Heinlein , book Stranger in a Strange Land

Variant: I've found out why people laugh. They laugh because it hurts so much... because it's the only thing that'll make it stop hurting.
Source: Stranger in a Strange Land

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American science fiction author 1907–1988

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