“It is fatal to be a man or woman pure and simple: one must be a woman manly, or a man womanly.”

— Virginia Woolf , book A Room of One's Own

Variant: It is fatal to be a man or woman pure and simple; one must be woman-manly or man-womanly.... Some marriage of opposites has to be consummated.
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