“We can love with our minds, but can we love only with our minds? Love extends itself all the time, so that we can love even with our senseless nails: we love even with our clothes, so that a sleeve can feel a sleeve.”

— Graham Greene , book The End of the Affair

Source: The End of the Affair

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English writer, playwright and literary critic 1904–1991

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