“To understand the authenticity of a person, observe his or her behaviour after he or she no longer has any interest in you.”

—  Prevale

Original: Per comprendere l'autenticità di una persona, osservate il suo comportamento dopo che non avrà più alcun interesse nei vostri confronti.
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