“In order to fit into certain ideals, you need to mutilate yourself.”

—  Intan Paramaditha

On using the story “The Red Shoes” as inspiration for a woman trapped by societal ideals in “Intan Paramaditha: 'We are always haunted by the road not taken'” https://www.theguardian.com/books/2020/mar/05/intan-paramaditha-the-gathering-novel in The Guardian (2020 Mar 5)

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Indonesian writer and feminist academic 1979

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