Cassandra Clare book City of Ashes
Variant: If you can't tell the truth to the people you care about the most, eventually you stop being able to tell the truth to yourself.
Source: City of Ashes
Foreword to the 2nd Edition (December 2004), by Natalie Goldberg. p.xxiii
Writing Down the Bones (1986)
Cassandra Clare book City of Ashes
Variant: If you can't tell the truth to the people you care about the most, eventually you stop being able to tell the truth to yourself.
Source: City of Ashes
Jordan Peterson (1962) Canadian clinical psychologist, cultural critic, and professor of psychology
Concepts
“Do you want to tell the truth, or do you want to tell a story?”
Robert Charles Wilson book Julian Comstock: A Story of 22nd-Century America
Source: Julian Comstock: A Story of 22nd-Century America (2009), p. 361
“A friend tells you what you want to hear; a best friend tells you the truth.”
Marilyn Monroe (1926–1962) American actress, model, and singer
James Burgh (1714–1775) British politician
The Dignity of Human Nature (1754)
Horace Mann (1796–1859) American politician
James Burgh, in The Dignity of Human Nature (1754)
Misattributed
“If you do not tell the truth about yourself you cannot tell it about other people.”
Virginia Woolf (1882–1941) English writer
"The Leaning Tower", lecture delivered to the Workers' Educational Association, Brighton (May 1940)
The Moment and Other Essays (1948)