“Values that are expressed but that don't change behavior are not really values, they are lies that you tell yourself.”

— Coraline Ada Ehmke

Antisocial Coding: My Year at GitHub https://where.coraline.codes/blog/my-year-at-github/ (July 5, 2017)

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