“Maybe everything bad that happens to you makes you weaker, and so you can stand less and less.”

—  James Baldwin , book Giovanni's Room

Pt. 2, Ch. 3 - p.97
Giovanni's Room (1956)

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(1924-1987) writer from the United States 1924–1987

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