“Most people don’t think I’m rational. They’re too busy featuring their hurt. They find it irrational not to feature your hurt. That’s how fucked up they are.”

—  Frank Zappa

Oui interview (1979)

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American musician, songwriter, composer, and record and fil… 1940–1993

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