“Nobody's reasonable when they're in love. That's the whole point of it.”
Rene Balcer (1954) screenwriter, producer and director
Det. Robert Goren in Law & Order: Criminal Intent.
Law & Order: Criminal Intent
Source: Eleven Minutes (2003), p. 164.
Context: Anyone who is in love is making love the whole time, even when they're not. When two bodies meet, it is just the cup overflowing. They can stay together for hours, even days. They begin the dance one day and finish it the next, or — such is the pleasure they experience — they may never finish it. No eleven minutes for them.
“Nobody's reasonable when they're in love. That's the whole point of it.”
Rene Balcer (1954) screenwriter, producer and director
Det. Robert Goren in Law & Order: Criminal Intent.
Law & Order: Criminal Intent
“Anyone who loves in the expectation of being loved in return is wasting their time.”
Paulo Coelho book The Devil and Miss Prym
Source: The Devil and Miss Prym
Leo Tolstoy book Anna Karenina
Variant: When you love someone, you love the person as they are, and not as you'd like them to be.
Source: Anna Karenina
“It's okay to love someone who doesn't love you back, as long as they're worth loving.”
Cassandra Clare book Clockwork Angel
Variant: It's all right to love someone who doesn't love you back, as long as they're worth you loving them. As long as they deserve it.
Source: Clockwork Angel
Barbara De Angelis (1951) American psychologist
From Are You the One for Me? (1992)