“People are never quite so strange to each other as when they are forced into artificial, crowded and stifled relationship.”

—  Eugene V. Debs

The Issue (1908)
Context: People are never quite so strange to each other as when they are forced into artificial, crowded and stifled relationship.
I would rather be friendless out on the American desert than to be friendless in New York or Chicago.

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American labor and political leader 1855–1926

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