“… the plan will happen in spite of us, not because of us.”
Melody Beattie (1948) American writer
Source: The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations on Codependency
Conclusion, p. 393.
The Fur Trade in Canada (1930)
Context: Canada emerged as a political entity with boundaries largely determined by the fur trade. These boundaries included a vast north temperate land area extending from the Atlantic to the Pacific and dominated by the Canadian Shield. The present Dominion emerged not in spite of geography but because of it.
“… the plan will happen in spite of us, not because of us.”
Melody Beattie (1948) American writer
Source: The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations on Codependency
“Heidegger is 'great' not in spite of, but because of his Nazi engagement…”
Slavoj Žižek (1949) Slovene philosopher
In Defense of Lost Causes (2008)
Edmund Clerihew Bentley (1875–1956) British writer
Clerihews: Biography for Beginners (1905)
Brian Andreas (1956) American artist
Source: Story People: Selected Stories & Drawings of Brian Andreas
“We like someone because, we love someone in spite of…”
Chinmayananda Saraswati (1916–1993) Indian spiritual teacher
Quotations from Gurudev’s teachings, Chinmya Mission Chicago
Vera Stanley Alder (1898–1984) British artist
Source: Humanity Comes of Age, A study of Individual and World Fulfillment (1950), Chapter II Planning a Model World
“She loved him not only in spite of but because he himself was incapable of love.”
William Faulkner book The Sound and the Fury
Source: The Sound and the Fury
“Suppose our failures occur, not in spite of what we are doing, but precisely because of it.”
Dallas Willard (1935–2013) American philosopher
Source: The Divine Conspiracy: Rediscovering Our Hidden Life In God