“No one cares to speak to an unwilling listener. An arrow never lodges in a stone: often it recoils upon the sender of it.”

—  Jerome

Letter 52
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Nemo invito auditori libenter refert. Sagitta in lapidem nunquam figitur, interdum resiliens percutit dirigentem.

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Jerome 52
Catholic saint and Doctor of the Church 345–420

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