“True love is like the appearance of ghosts: everyone talks about it but few have seen it.”

Il est du véritable amour comme de l'apparition des esprits: tout le monde en parle, mais peu de gens en ont vu.
Variant translation: With true love it's like with the appearance of ghosts: everyone talks about it but few have seen it.
Maxim 76.
Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims (1665–1678)

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Il en est du véritable amour comme de l'apparition des esprits; tout le monde en parle, mais peu de gens en ont vu.

Variant: Il est du véritable amour comme de l'apparition des esprits: tout le monde en parle, mais peu de gens en ont vu.

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French author of maxims and memoirs 1613–1680

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