“A son is a son 'til he gets a wife, but a daughter is a daughter all her life.”
Source: Love the One You're With
Prologue
The Path of the King (1921)
Context: Generations follow, oblivious of the high beginnings, but there is that in the stock which is fated to endure. The sons and daughters blunder and sin and perish, but the race goes on, for there is a fierce stuff of life in it. It sinks and rises again and blossoms at haphazard into virtue or vice, since the ordinary moral laws do not concern its mission. Some rags of greatness always cling to it, the dumb faith that sometime and somehow that blood drawn from kings it never knew will be royal again. Though nature is wasteful of material things, there is no waste of spirit. And then after long years there comes, unheralded and unlooked-for, the day of the Appointed Time...
“A son is a son 'til he gets a wife, but a daughter is a daughter all her life.”
Source: Love the One You're With
“What follows the way of Heaven prospers and what goes against it perishes.”
Source: Dream of the Red Chamber (1958), p. 290
“Oh my son's my son till he gets a wife,
But my daughter's my daughter all her life.”
"Young and Old"
Women and Madness (2005), pp. 348–349, and Women and Madness (1972), p. 301.
Women and Madness (1972, 2005)
Source: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 121.
Daniel Katz and K.W. Braly (1935) "Racial prejudice and racial stereotypes". Journal of Abnormal and Social Psychology. p. 191-2 Cited in: Mark P. Zanna, James M. Olson (1994) The Psychology of Prejudice. p. 16