“If you want to get close to somebody, you have to tell him or her something intimate about yourself. They'll tell you something intimate in return, and if you keep this going, maybe you'll end up in love.”

—  Douglas Coupland, Hey Nostradamus!

Hey Nostradamus! (2003)

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