“I don't pretend to know what people are meant for," said Madame Merle. "I only know what I can do with them.”

—  Henry James , book The Portrait of a Lady

Source: The Portrait of a Lady (1881), Ch. XXII.

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American novelist, short story author, and literary critic 1843–1916

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