“You'll never be wanted," [a draft board official] said, and thrust at me a smaller piece of paper. This described me as being incapable of being graded in grades A, B, etc., because I suffered from sexual perversion. When the story of my disgrace became one of the contemporary fables of Chelsea, a certain Miss Marshall said, "I don't much care for the expression 'suffering from.' Shouldn't it be 'glorying in'?”

— Quentin Crisp , book The Naked Civil Servant

Source: The Naked Civil Servant (1968), Ch. 16

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writer, Actor 1908–1999

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