“Everybody knows that we like those who resemble us, those who think and feel as we do. But the opposite is no less true. It very often happens that we feel kindly towards those who do not resemble us, precisely because of this lack of resemblance.”

— Émile Durkheim

Source: The Division of Labor in Society (1893), p. 54

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French sociologist (1858-1917) 1858–1917

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