“Someone trying to live well would seem eccentrically abstemious in most of the US. That phenomenon is only going to become more pronounced. You can probably take it as a rule of thumb from now on that if people don't think you're weird, you're living badly.”

—  Paul Graham

"How To Lose Time And Money", July 2010

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English programmer, venture capitalist, and essayist 1964

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