“If you only try to please others, you're going to resent those people you're trying to please; the ones who are often closest to you. If you choose a path that you yourself want to take, then you're going to be much kinder to the people in your life.”

Source: Plenty: A Collection of Sarah McLachlan's Favorite Recipes

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Canadian musician, singer, and songwriter 1968

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