“When I am laid, am laid in earth,
May my wrongs create
No trouble, no trouble in thy breast;
Remember me, remember me, but ah! forget my fate.
Remember me, but ah! forget my fate.”
Dido and Aeneas (opera; music by Henry Purcell)
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Nahum Tate4
Anglo-Irish poet and playwright 1652–1715Related quotes
“Tell me and I forget. Teach me and I may remember. Involve me and I learn.”
Benjamin Franklin (1706–1790) American author, printer, political theorist, politician, postmaster, scientist, inventor, civic activist, …
There is no evidence that Franklin said this. Scholars believe the saying comes from the Xunzi.
Additional information may be read at the following websites:
http://dakinburdick.wordpress.com/2012/03/14/tell-me-and-i-forget/
http://www.quora.com/History/Where-and-when-did-Benjamin-Franklin-say-Tell-me-and-I-forget-teach-me-and-I-may-remember-involve-me-and-I-learn
http://gazettextra.com/weblogs/word-badger/2013/mar/24/whose-quote-really/
Misattributed
“Remember me and smile, for it's better to forget than to remember me and cry.”
Dr. Seuss (1904–1991) American children's writer and illustrator, co-founder of Beginner Books
“When I forget my sovereign, may my God forget me.”
Edward Thurlow, 1st Baron Thurlow (1731–1806) British lawyer and Tory politician
27 Parliamentary History, 680; Annual Register, 1789. Wilkes is reported to have replied, somewhat coarsely, but not unhappily it must be allowed, "Forget you! He ’ll see you damned first". Edmund Burke also exclaimed, "The best thing that could happen to you!" —Henry Peter, Lord Brougham, Statesmen of the Time of George III (Thurlow).
Emily Dickinson book The Complete Poems of Emily Dickinson
Love, p. 172
Collected Poems (1993)
Source: The Complete Poems of Emily Dickinson
Richard Rodríguez (1944) American journalist and essayist
Hunger of Memory: The Education of Richard Rodriguez (1982)
“If you remember me, then I don't care if everyone else forgets.”
Haruki Murakami book Kafka on the Shore
Source: Kafka on the Shore