“But that story has in it the only constructive thing I ever learned about women - that no matter what happened to them and how they turned, you should try to disregard all that and remember them only as they were on the best day they ever had.”

Source: Words of Radiance

Source: About a Boy (1998), Ch. 4

Source: The Lie

Source: The Hunger Games

Source: Dear John

Source: Mother of Storms (1994), p. 261

Source: Between The Tides

1980s, A Dream Deferred (1989)
Context: It is a real thrill to be back home. When I was here I was not as endeared to this institution as I am now. You learn in retrospect and appreciate as you move on. I was indeed shaped by my experience at Smith—it was the first time I had to struggle. It was the very first time I learned how to determine and focus very specifically on the things that I felt were important, to strategize and to learn how to go about getting them and making them happen. While it was painful then, I am truly thankful for that experience now.

Loving What Is: Four Questions That Can Change Your Life (2002)