“To receive everything, one must open one's hands and give.”

As quoted in Treasury of Spiritual Wisdom : A Collection of 10,000 Powerful Quotations (2003) by Andy Zubko, p. 184

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Taisen Deshimaru 18
Japanese Buddhist monk 1914–1982

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