“We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all.”
“To how much lying, extravagance, hypocrisy and servilism does not the fear of ridicule lead? Human respect makes us cowards and slaves. It may deter from evil, but much oftener it drives to baseness. “We are too much afraid,” said Cato, “of death, exile and poverty.””
Source: Aphorisms and Reflections (1901), p. 171
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“Oh! Death would take so much from us, how should we not fear?”
From De Profundis
Context: But we of the rich plain of sweet airs and pure,
Oh! Death would take so much from us, how should we not fear?
Source: The Upper Room (1888), Ch. XVI: "The Duties of Parents"
"The Cool Web," lines 9–12, from Poems 1914-1926 (1927).
Poems
“How often we sin, how much we deceive, and all for what?… All will end in death, all!”
Source: War and Peace