“The essence of love is getting out of oneself and into others. When we care less about our feelings, our rights, our happiness, our security, etc., and begin to concern ourselves with the feelings, rights, happiness, and security of others, we will have found the true power of love.”

—  Leo Buscaglia

A Magazine of People and Possibilities interview (1998)

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Motivational speaker, writer 1924–1998

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