“Thoughts are given us, not only to chew over for ourselves, but to communicate to others. And if we can find a man that is ready to receive them, and a suitable occasion, there is nothing more pleasurable than giving them.”

— Frank Crane

Preface.
Everyday Wisdom (1927)

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American Presbyterian minister 1861–1928

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