“After all, a man marries to have a home, but also because he doesn't want to be bothered with sex and all that sort of thing.”

— W. Somerset Maugham

Arnold, in The Circle: A Comedy in Three Acts (1921), p. 58-59
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British playwright, novelist, short story writer 1874–1965

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