“One can insult an honest man or an honest woman, but to tell a thief that he is a thief is merely la constation d'un fait”
The establishing of a fact.
Pt. IV, ch. 4
Anna Karenina (1875–1877; 1878)
Help us to complete the source, original and additional information
Leo Tolstoy 456
Russian writer 1828–1910Related quotes
“When a man or woman is truly honest, it is virtually impossible to insult them personally.”

1790s, Letter to Revd. Dr. Trusler (1799)

“4788. The Thief is sorry he is to be hanged, but not that he is a Thief.”
Introductio ad prudentiam: Part II (1727), Gnomologia (1732)

“Do not despair: one thief was saved. Do not presume: one thief was damned.”
Attributed to St. Augustine in The Repentance of Robert Greene, Master of Arts http://www.oxford-shakespeare.com/Greene/Repentance_Robert_Greene.pdf (1592) by Robert Greene.
Disputed
Variant: Do not despair; one of the thieves was saved. Do not presume; one of the thieves was damned.

Speech on Religious Intolerance as presented at the Pittsburgh Opera House (14 October 1879).
Context: They say the religion of your fathers is good enough. Why should a father object to your inventing a better plow than he had? They say to me, do you know more than all the theologians dead? Being a perfectly modest man I say I think I do. Now we have come to the conclusion that every man has a right to think. Would God give a bird wings and make it a crime to fly? Would he give me brains and make it a crime to think? Any God that would damn one of his children for the expression of his honest thought wouldn't make a decent thief. When I read a book and don't believe it, I ought to say so. I will do so and take the consequences like a man.
“Even if he was a thief, he was my thief. I could not push him away anymore.”
Source: Dragonswood