“If when we judged others, our real motive was to destroy evil, we should look for evil where it is certain to be found, and that is in our own hearts. But if we are on the look-out for evil in others, our real motive is obviously to justify ourselves.”

— Dietrich Bonhoeffer

Source: Discipleship (1937), The Disciple and Unbelievers, p. 185.

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German Lutheran pastor, theologian, dissident anti-Nazi 1906–1945

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