Source: Abba's Child: The Cry of the Heart for Intimate Belonging
“When one is a stranger to oneself then one is estranged from others too. If one is out of touch with oneself, then one cannot touch others.”
Gift from the Sea (1955)
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American aviator and author 1906–2001Related quotes

“One does not meet oneself until one catches the reflection from an eye other than human.”

Quoted in: The Artist, Vol. 93 (1978) p. 5.
1970s

“If one doesn't respect oneself one can have neither love nor respect for others.”

Budo Secrets (2002)
Context: Jigoro Kano's Five Principles of Judo:
1. Carefully observe oneself and one's situation, carefully observe others, and carefully observe one's environment,
2. Seize the initiative in whatever you undertake,
3. Consider fully, act decisively,
4. Know when to stop,
5. Keep to the middle.

"La vida es difícil. Para estar en paz con uno mismo hay que decir la verdad. Para estar en paz con el prójimo hay que mentir."
Descanso de caminantes, 2001.

For the first kind of morality, that is, for self-restraint, I have the greatest respect. The second kind of morality I do not respect except when it constitutes self-defense. (For example, when women say that rape and wife-beating are immoral, that is self-defense.) I have noticed that the people who try hardest to impose moral code on others (not in self-defense) are often the least careful to abide by that moral code themselves.
"Morality and Revolution"
The Road to Revolution (2008)