“If we must absolutely mention this state of affairs, I suggest that we call ourselves “absent”, that is more proper.”

Estelle, refusing to use the word “dead”, Act 1, sc. 5
No Exit (1944)

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French existentialist philosopher, playwright, novelist, sc… 1905–1980

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