“But understand them, people say. And one does. But sometimes understanding is not comforting or flattering to the understood.”
2000s, Change and Determination: After 9/11, a shaking up (2002)
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“When a wise man does not understand, he says: "I do not understand."”
The fool and the uncultured are ashamed of their ignorance. They remain silent when a question could bring them wisdom.
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“Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.”
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