“What do you do do when your heart says one thing and your head, and your lawyer, says another? I was a romantic. I put my whole heart on the line when I love someone. … I don't think like a thief so I never see this quality in others until it's too late.”

Source: Unsinkable : A Memoir (2013), Chapter 16. Bottoming Out in Beverley Hills

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I gave up. I decided that wasn't the language for me, and stopped learning Japanese.
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