“The appalling thing is the degree of charity women are capable of. You see it all the time … love lavished on absolute fools. Love's a charity ward, you know.”

— Lawrence Durrell

Interview in The Observer, 1990

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British novelist, poet, dramatist, and travel writer 1912–1990

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