“Who is the loving person? The loving person is the person who loves him or herself. I say this so often, and people say, "Oh yes, you're so right," but they don't do it! You will never be able to love anyone else until you love yourself. Even With your Fat Thighs!”

— Leo Buscaglia

Speaking Of Love (1980)

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Motivational speaker, writer 1924–1998

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