“To know when one's self is interested, is the first condition of interesting other people.”

—  Walter Pater

Source: Marius the Epicurean http://www.gutenberg.org/dirs/etext03/8mrs110.txt (1885), Ch. 6

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essayist, art and literature critic, fiction writer 1839–1894

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