“If we judge love by the majority of its results, it resembles hatred more than friendship.”
Si on juge de l'amour par la plupart de ses effets, il ressemble plus à la haine qu'à l'amitié.
Maxim 72.
Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims (1665–1678)
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Si on juge de l'amour par la plupart de ses effets, il ressemble plus à la haine qu'à l'amitié.
Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims (1665–1678)
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François de La Rochefoucauld 156
French author of maxims and memoirs 1613–1680Related quotes
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Alternate translation: Nothing better forges a bond of love, friendship or respect than common hatred toward something.
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“Life resembles a novel more often than novels resemble life.”
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The Discovery of India (1946)
Context: The world of today has achieved much, but for all its declared love for humanity, it has based itself far more on hatred and violence than on the virtues that make one human. War is the negation of truth and humanity. War may be unavoidable sometimes, but its progeny are terrible to contemplate. Not mere killing, for man must die, but the deliberate and persistent propagation of hatred and falsehood, which gradually become the normal habits of the people. It is dangerous and harmful to be guided in our life's course by hatreds and aversions, for they are wasteful of energy and limit and twist the mind and prevent it from perceiving truth.