“It's in the fight, in the striving, in the mountains unclimbed that fulfillment lies, so if you have nothing to strive for, you have nothing to make you happy. When it comes to "for better" or "for worse," "for better" is often harder on a marriage.”

— Merle Shain

Some Men are More Perfect Than Others (1973)

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Canadian writer 1935–1989

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